Alex is a guy I like?

We both like each other, but sometimes I dont give the best examples of myself. I'll sometimes come across totally diffrent from what I am. I might do something totally impressive or cute but then I'll slip up and pass the wrong message with the little things I do or say, ushually negitive.





For example:


1.His friend knocked a large bow I agave him off his head and I called his friend stupid without thinking.


2. He hugs a girl I know and I watch the girl walk off, almost possessively.


3. I'll acidently put him down like "your dad actually times you?"


and I'm sur ethere are more


I'm really not liek any of that, I'm just so careless cause I'm nervous? Is there any hope that he can ove rlook these miscomunicated messages? :(

Alex is a guy I like?
say to hinm i get nervous in front of u so i say random things if i was him i would laugh because u called my friend stupid . but also because u like him and get nervous . im sure he would be entertained
Reply:Just be yourself, maybe after you get to know each other a little bit more you'll feel better and you'll stop doing that.
Reply:try to think b4 u say somethin to him
Reply:maybe you guys should go out sometime and get to know each other inside and out and i'm sure the guy you're crushing would like that.. you know... getting to know the true you? maybe if you're both alone, he'll actually see your true personality :) and i'm sure he wont overlook those miscommunicated messages :)
Reply:Listen, what you are doing is okay. You know everybody does mistakes. What you need to do is that don't feel really bad about it and explain to Alex that the things you do are not really mean, and make sure you apologise when you do such a thing. Poeple get mad and do things like this all the time esppecially lovers. So make sure you talk to him and tell him how you feel and that you are not really looking down on him or anything.


Good luck :)
Reply:ok
Reply:Yep, you are too nervous, you think saying these thigs will make him notice you, but guys normally don't fall for girls who are always saying negative things, they like sweet, caring girls...
Reply:try to ignore him
Reply:if he really cares about u yes he can
Reply:um i thin kthe things you are doing aren't neccesaraly misleading, i mean i am not in your position so i don''t know what kind of signals he is sending back but if they are negative as well i would say def. work on that. but if you notice he doesn't care i think thats just you being you ya know? sometimes it does become a habbit for ppl to call ppl stupid or question things like yr dad times you


its just your way of carring on a convo so i ersonally don't think yr doing anything wrong but i would say if you are unhappy with the way you have been acting do something about it and take control over the things that come out of your mouth


hope this helps byeee
Reply:It takes time to grow into your own skin. It's simple hun, just think before you speak. It'll take practice but before you say something run it through in your head...will he take offense, does that hurt his feelings, will that make him feel good about himself?
Reply:you should tell him


how you feel


and maybe you guys can work it out

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